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Thursday, November 14, 2013

Jamie Krauss Hess: The 5 Biggest Changes You'll Find in Fire Island Pines This Summer

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It's that time of year again: time to buff up, bare all and hit the beach. Any good gay knows that Fire Island, specifically the Pines region, is one of the most beautiful, historic and hedonistic summer destinations in the world. You may also know that the Pines had it rough over the past couple of years. A devastating fire leveled the beloved Pavilion nightclub in 2011, and Hurricane Sandy took its toll in 2012. But much like the resilient population that inhabits its shores, the Pines won't be quieted. In the face of adversity, it rises up stronger than before. And how could it not? This year marks the Pines' 60th anniversary. Here are five things that will make summer 2013 in the Pines the best one ever... and why you'll want to be there to experience it.

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Like a phoenix rising from the ashes, so goes the Pavilion. Finally rebuilt after the fire that demolished it two years ago, the space was reimagined by the acclaimed design firm Hollwich Kushner (HWKN). The resurrected venue includes a first-floor Welcome Bar and a second floor that boasts a 2,760-square-foot terrace outside and a 2,000-square-foot dance floor inside. "We designed the new Pavilion around the Fire Island community," says Matthias Hollwich, co-founder of HWKN. "The building forms intimate spaces out of a single volume." Hollwich adds, "Aside from designing a building with personality, our primary focus was to recreate the social engine that was so unique to the famed Pavilion of the '90s."

Legendary New York promoter Tony Fornabaio has signed on as Entertainment Director, promising to bring back the true "sound of the Pines." Once known for its cutting-edge music, the Pines was the birthplace of a unique set of sexy, sultry sounds -- a special brand of beachy house and nuevo disco. "We're looking to recapture the unique sound the island used to have," explains Fornabaio. "Musically, the island has moved away from what it used to be. It's become reliant on pop music. While there is nothing wrong with pop, it is our intention to bring back that memorable, soulful sound that Fire Island is known for." Just what does this mean? Take a look at the opening-weekend lineup. With disco legends like Robbie Leslie and Michael Fierman commanding the DJ booth, the dance floor is sure to be awash in that sexy Fire Island vibe. Nostalgia not your thing? Don't worry. Eddie Elias and Tony Moran are on hand Saturday night to deliver their special brand of beats, treats and hard-hitting circuit sounds. (Photo courtesy of the Fire Island Pines Historical Preservation Society)

Let's face it: Sometimes the Pines gets a bad rap. People think it's all about partying, hot guys and... ahem... you know what. True, the Pines vacationer traditionally likes to get his drink on, and there's nothing wrong with a little cruising during High Tea. But this summer, the Pines will up the cultural ante with an elevated roster of interesting, innovative programming and an infusion of visual and performance art. When the Pavilion is not busy pumping out beats from its state-of-the-art sound system, it will play host to variety shows (comedians, drag shows, vaudeville and burlesque), as well as the return of the popular "Boardwalk Talks" series, which, last year, offered discussions with the likes of Larry Kramer. Ben Rimalower is performing his one-man show Patti Issues throughout the summer, Haus of Mimosa will bring a hilarious review unlike anything you've ever seen, and the infamous Candis Cayne will be back in the Pines frequently, bringing her trademark glamor and pizazz. Art will be another main focus this summer, appearing in ways Pinesgoers have never experienced. Matthew Blesso (CEO of Blesso Properties, the managing owner of the Pines) is known for infusing art into everything he does (take a look at his Tantalo Hotel in Panama City) and has planned for a major art infusion to run throughout the commercial district. Dotting the landscape will be sculptures, murals and temporary installations curated from a global portfolio of artists. Be prepared for an exciting upgrade with this forward-thinking aesthetic. Trust us, this ain't your granddaddy's Pines experience!

Because between all the partying, you are on vacation, after all! General Manager Constantino Papadakis promises a fully upgraded, unmatched hospitality experience for residents, guests and daytrip visitors alike. "Fire Island is a magical getaway for people, and we want to make sure that every person who steps off the ferry is made to feel welcome and accommodated," he explains. "Bartenders that are smiling and friendly, highly trained wait staff and a management team that helps people navigate the intricate ins and outs of the island -- this finely tuned staff will be in place, and available to our guests like never before." The food and beverage experience has changed too, with the introduction of all-new menus at the Canteen and Blue Whale that include organic and gluten-free options. The wine selection is all locally sourced from wineries in upstate New York and Long Island, and master mixologiest Sean Labbe (Top of the Standard, aka the "Boom Boom Room") will ensure that drinks at the Pool Deck, the Pavilion and the Blue Whale and the smoothies at the Muscle Bar are all over-the-top creative. As if you needed another reason to get tipsy.

In the midst of sunny, beachy days and wild, salacious nights, it's nice to also feel that you've done something good for humanity and the environment. The Pines has got you covered. Blesso has enacted a sustainability plan for summer 2013 that has never been attempted in the Pines. In addition to composting food for fertilizer and introducing an updated recycling program, they acquired all "green" materials for food and beverage service, including sourcing biodegradable materials for the 200,000-plus cups used for serving booze (yes, folks, that's how many drinks you go through in a summer!). Charitable efforts abound all summer long, kicked off by the Worldwide Orphans fundraiser in July, which will be hosted by Rosie O'Donnell. Papadakis is also cultivating a wide range of charitable partnerships, including the launch of the HERO program, which will offer discounts to public safety service personnel, such as members of the military, law enforcement and firefighters.

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Wednesday, January 2, 2013

Summer McLane: How to Make Two Homes One

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Alright, you've got the wedding planning in full swing: venue picked out with the deposit put down; caterer chosen and the tastings are out of the way; final dress fitting, done! It seems like things are going just as planned until you remember that now you have to figure out how to combine your two homes into one (if you don't live together already, of course).

As women, most of us like our space to be organized and neat. It kind of seems like most men are still living with the college dorm mentality. Shot glasses from his roadtrips with the boys. Baseball cards that he's been collecting since he was 15 but hasn't looked at since he was...well, 15. These things seem so meaningless. You begin counting down the days until you can start throwing them away. You're thinking, "I mean, who really needs 23 shot glasses?! Our house will look so much better without all of those stupid tchotchkes!" Right? Well, not really.

One of my brides recently asked to have a meeting at her house to go over wedding details. As I drove up, I saw her carrying out two huge garbage bags. I assumed she was just taking out the garbage until she informed that she was finally able to throw out all of her fiancé's "crap". I tried to mind my business and focus on the catering menu until I saw her throw away a pile of t-shirts. I asked her what she was doing and she said that she can't stand any of those shirts on him and he'd never miss them. I've seen this happen on TV but I've never actually seen it with my own eyes.

Let's look at this a different way: If someone walked into our house and started throwing away our things, we'd be ready to kill! I can't even imagine searching for an item of clothing to find out later that my fiancé had thrown it out because he didn't see the importance. There is no need to handle the combining of houses disrespectfully. Now, I'm not saying keep all of his little knickknacks, but it is important to have a talk with him BEFORE throwing his stuff out. I'd have him pick out maybe five of his favorites. He'll probably be more flexible with letting go of some of his things because he's a guy and just doesn't care as much as we do.

Here are a few ideas that will help make the transition from one home to two a little easier:

• Consult. We've already talked about consulting with him before throwing out his clothes. Consultation doesn't end there. You're going to have to consult about almost everything: visitors, who cleans the dishes, who takes out the trash, who gets to watch their shows on the big TV...everything. If you've had girl's night at your house every Thursday night for the past year, make sure that your husband is OK with that continuing. It is now his house as well and he might not want that to continue.

• Finances. Whether you have a joint account or not, you'll need to discuss who is paying the mortgage, who is in charge of the utilities, etc. You can't assume that your husband or wife is going to handle everything. Make it clear at the beginning and there won't be any issues.

• Allow personal space. I've had roommates and I've also lived on my own for years. I wasn't used to having someone around all the time. Don't take it personally if he just wants to watch football by himself in your room. There will come a time when you just want to take a bath and read your magazines without him in your face. You may be one of those couples who want to be in each other's faces all day and all night but a little bit of space won't hurt.

When you get engaged, you have to remember that you're combining your lives together. That means bank accounts (if you decide to go that route), debt (we'll talk about that later), and your houses. You will have to learn to let little things, like his old t-shirts and baseball cards, go if you want to have a peaceful marriage...there will be plenty of other things to fight about.

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